Leave Her Alone

Set a boundary.
Enforce it with intention.

A private referee for the conversations that matter most. Define what you'll accept, let AI enforce it — no confrontation required.

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Word Bank
Define the words, phrases, or topics that cross your line.
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Referee
Every message is screened. Flags are caught before they land.
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Closure
When you need to say what you never could — in private.
How it works
1
Describe the situation
A short quiz tells the system the context — no identifying details required.
2
Build your word bank
List the trigger words and set pivot phrases to redirect flagged messages.
3
The referee watches
Paste or route messages through the referee — it clears, blocks, or pivots automatically.
4
Optional: two-party mediation
Both parties deposit messages into a neutral safe box. No direct contact needed.